Being married or being divorced?is it worth it? is it saying ‘I DO’ to hope, love, commitment or to depression? Many couples have being asking themselves such questions and at times they fail to answer themselves. Marriage is a life time commitment which requires one’s ability to endure, to love, to sacrifice, to communicate, to respect and to compromise. Enduring doesn’t suffering but tolerating one another with the hope of change. enduring in marriages means having patience towards your partner when they are failing to meet you halfway. Enduring means building each other and walking together in your journey of marriage.
i have been married for 11 years and l have experienced this so called endurance.in marriage l have learnt that you need to teach, groom, respect and love each other. the characters that one possess when are you still dating are not the ones that you will deal with when you are married. In the very first few weeks of marriage you will realize that my partner is harsh, he or she is a bit rude, he or she has this funny character which needs attention. Upon realizing these traits that when communication chips in. Communication is the pillar of any marriage. It is through communication that you dissolve disputes, it is through communication that you build each other, There are many aspects that help build a happy marriage, on of my elders said that marriage requires he matured only, it is not child’s game.It requires woman who can submit themselves to their husbands. A submissive wife melts the heart of his husband and such marriages stay longer. On the other hand, marriage has no formula, l prefer it when the two master their own game and play.
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